Friday, November 9, 2007

Mom lost her battle with cancer but won her battle in life...


I love my mom. . . . My mom lost her battle with cancer, and it was a very hard battle. It was scary and painful, but she leaned on the strength of her husband, her family and on her Savior. I am so proud of my mom.

Shirley Anne Rittenhour came into this world in Sandusky, Ohio in February of 1936. She grew up in Ohio and she left many friends there when she moved to Pennsylvania after graduating from high school ... She left a very special friend there, Bob. In PA she met a very handsome, athletic, vibrant young man with beautiful blue eyes, Karl (my dad!) They were married in 1958. In 1960, mom became a mom .... and within five years she had three of us!

Mom was "the mom" - we believe June Cleaver took mom lessons from mom. Mom holds the following titles in my eyes: Expert Housekeeper, Laundress Extraordinaire, Professional Seamstress and Quilter, Camping Mom, Game Champion, Clever Craftmaker, Home decorator, Flower Arranger, Sit-Upon Maker, Candle maker, Clever Word Sayer, Bassmaster, Patient Driver Ed Mom, First Class Girl Scout Leader, Mother to many - mom to three.

Mom and Dad had 41 event filled years together - we kept them very busy, before dad passed away in 1999. A difficult time for mom and her three girls, but our Savior and the love of our family brought us through. And then, as mom turned to the Lord for strength and help, a wonderful thing happened ... Bob. Yes, the weekend mom traveled back to Ohio for her 50th High School Reunion, her special friend was there. Labor Day weekend of 2004 was the beginning of a beautiful, romantic reunion. Bob and Mom were married in May of 2005. We love you too Bob.

I could go on and on about how much I love and respect my mom .... but most of all I want to honor her for the way she battled the cancer, or as she called it, "the beast" with dignity.

I love you mom!

Mom and Dad

Mom and Bob July 2007 ...
Nanna with the girls - Summer 2007

BARBERTON -- Shirley (Rittenhour) Wilhelm Critchfield, formerly of Painted Post and Keuka Park, N.Y., passed away Friday, November 9, 2007, in her hometown of Barberton, Ohio, after a courageous battle with cancer.

Shirley was known for her beautiful smile, her varied interests, her sense of humor, and her love for her family and friends. She was born February 10, 1936 in Sandusky, Ohio.

She is survived by her mother, Corinne Rittenhour of Vermont; her husband of 2-½; years, Robert Critchfield of Barberton, Ohio; her three children, Melanie McGuire and her husband, James and their children, Emily and Kathryn of East Bloomfield, N.Y., Karla Markayze and her husband, Steven and their child, Matthew of Painted Post, N.Y., Kimberly Glab and her husband, Donald and their children, Corinne, Kendall, Kimberly and Christiana of Gaithersburg, Md.; brothers, Ronald (Patricia) Rittenhour of Ohio, James (Debbie) Rittenhour of Vermont; stepson, John Critchfield and his children, Max and Taylor; step-daughter, Sharon (Peter) Dressen, all of Ohio; several nieces and nephews and beloved friends. She was predeceased by her husband of 41 years, Karl K. Wilhelm and her father, Lloyd H. Rittenhour.

While living in Barberton, Shirley attended Johnson United Methodist Church and was active in their seniors group. While living in Painted Post, Shirley was a devoted member of Emanuel Lutheran Church, serving on the church council, Altar Guild, and the Lutheran Church Women. Shirley was a member of the Eastern Star, and for many years, was a Scout leader. While living in Penn Yan, Shirley was an active member of St. Paul Lutheran Church and the Red Hat Society.

As a wife, mother and grandmother, her unselfish devotion will forever be remembered and treasured. She was extremely proud of her children and grandchildren, and was always there to support them. Shirley enjoyed traveling, gardening, quilting, reading and spending time with her special friends.

Special thanks to the ER staff and CCU nurses at Barberton Citizens Hospital; Parkview Cancer Center and Justin T. Rogers Hospice Care Center, for their caring compassion in her final journey.

Visitation Sunday, 2 to 4 p.m. at the Campfield-Hickman-Collier Funeral Home, 566 W. Park Avenue, Barberton 44203. Funeral service will be held Wednesday, 12 Noon at St. Paul Lutheran Church in Penn Yan, N.Y., with visitation at 11 a.m. until time of service. Burial will be at Lakeview Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Justin T. Rogers Hospice Care Center, 3358 Ridgewood Road, Akron 44333.

18 comments:

Jean said...

Our hearts are broken with yours. We love you, Glab family.

The Mays Family

Unknown said...

What a beautiful tribute to your mom. We are praying for all of you. We love you-

The Keelers

Jen said...

Praying you feel HIS nearness as you miss your mom, Kim.

Chung-Hae said...

How sad we are that you've lost your mom (for a little while). How glad we are taht her suffering is over! How joyful we are that you and the rest of us who are left behind will see her in eternity! Thank you for your example and life, Kim's mom! And thank you for a beautiful tribute, Kim!

Love and continued prayers from the Caslers

Peggy said...

What a beautiful woman your mother was Kim! She will be missed!
Peggy

michele and girls said...

You and your family are in our prayers, as well as Bob and his family.

Jeannette said...

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, Kim. You, and all your family will continue to be in our prayers. We have so many wonderful memories of Shirley. Much love, The Stewart Family

Gerry said...

WE love you all and are praying for all of you. So glad you were with your mom at this time. Our love and prayers go out to all the family.

The Haughey Family

Sheilagh said...

Kim,

Thanks for sharing such wonderful memories about your mom. What a joy she was to you and your siblings and then to your girls. What a blessing that you had an amazing example of a mom and wife to follow. I believe your girls have seen many of the same things in you that you saw in your mom. May God comfort all of you and continue to bring many joyful memories of your mom's life.

Love ya,
Sheilagh

Unknown said...

Kim, We are so sad to hear of your Mom's death. It was not long ago when your shared of her illness. Now, you are without both parents! What an opportunity to rely on our Father in heaven and appreciate the additional older people he has brought into your life. He has not left you alone! And we are here,too!

God's grace be with you!
Dale

Kathy Simpson said...

Kim - I lost my mom just a few weeks ago on October 15. I know how hard this is for you right now. But I also know how much joy and comfort there is in knowing your mom is in heaven with Jesus. It certainly puts in perspective our short time here and forever with our Saviour. My prayers and thoughts will be with you, especially as the holidays draw near. And for all of those moments you think "I'll call mom and ask her." and then realize . . .
Love, Kathy Simpson

Unknown said...

Kim,

Our prayers our with you and all your family. Thank you for taking the time to do this beautiful tribute to your mom. She was a blessed lady.

The Lucas Family

Michelle said...

Dear Kim, how grieved we were to hear of the loss of your mother, yet thankful you can rejoice in knowing that her pain is over and you will see her again soon. Your mom was a wonderful woman. Praying that you rest in your Father's arms and receive His comfort.

Much love,
The Emelios

Mary said...

Kim, we are so sorry to hear about your mom. Your tribute to her is absolutely beautiful. She is certainly smiling down on you and your beautiful family.
The Murphy family

Kim and Galina Holmes said...

Dear Kim:
We are so sorry about the loss of your Mom. Our prayers are with you and the family. We love you all and thinking about you a lot.
Kim and Galina Holmes

elaine said...

Kim,
We are so sad to hear of the loss of your dear mom... what a blessing she was to you and her family...what a comfort to know that in His presence there is fullness of joy and pleasures forevermore(Psalm16:11)... We will be praying for all of you...
Love, The Yeatmans

Katie said...

"He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.”
We love you so much, and will continue to pray for you often.
Much Love,
The Techtmanns

candace sparks said...

I found your site right before I left to go be with my mom as she was dying in Ohio. That was two weeks ago. I was encouraged by the scriptures you shared. I am home now and to my surprise I read that your mom was at the same hospice that my mom was at. Wasn't it an incredible place? I miss my mom deeply already. I can't wait to see her in heaven. I hope your family is feeling stronger now too.